How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile
How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile Like it or not, but the most important factor in getting a better response from your ad is a successfully created profile. So, before composing it, you should think over carefully each part of your ad. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: DO YOUR BEST TO SINGLE OUT AMONG OTHERS Remember, the world of online dating is a world where inhabitants are competing with each other. As you enter this world, you will have to participate in this competition as well. That is why it is necessary to use some original words to describe yourself. Here are some examples of how you can do it: · Compare yourself to some famous personage. Fr instance, “If I were to compare myself with a famous fairy-tale personage, I would say Pinocchio. My friends say that because of my curiosity my nose is becoming 2 inches longer each time I try to bate my curiosity by asking questions. Though, I personally think that the more you are interested about something, the deeper you know it”. · Use a quotation to present people your worldviews. For example, “ Most people are about as happy as they make up their minds to be. I try to make my mind be full of positive thoughts and optimism. That’s why I am happy”. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: POST A GOOD PHOTO A well chosen picture is 90% of your entire success. If you have a photo, you have twice as more chances to get responses from your ad. If though, your profile is completed fully but no photo is posted, you may send thousands of greeting cards and virtual kisses but never get responses. Don’t post these pictures: - Web camera pictures. A web camera is not meant to make good photos and that is why no matter how hard will you try to pose, you have a few chances to look good on it. Most likely, you will only put people off. - Pictures of famous people. You will hardly manage to attract a lot of people to your ad in this case. No one wants to chat with an unreal person. - Pictures of animals, flowers, trees, etc. Here are a few suggestions on how to make your photo nice and catchy: · Use Photoshop or any other photo editing program to hide your lows and focus on your highs. You have problem-prone skin? Your teeth are not white enough? Just a few minutes of work with a photo editing program, and you look perfect on the picture. Such a beauty will certainly attract more visitors to your profile. · Use a picture showing your interests and hobbies. For instance, if you like skiing, post the photo of you in skis around mountains, if your hobby is music, and you can play some musical instrument, don’t hesitate to post a picture of you playing. Thus, you will let people know that you are an interesting and charismatic personality, and they will probably want to get to know you better. · Use photomontage to make your picture fascinating and attract more visitors to your ad. For example, you holding Bred Pitt and Julia Roberts, or a picture showing you dancing with a presidential candidate. Such a photo will certainly arouse other users’ interest and someone would probably want to find out if you are really a close friend to some world famous person. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: DON’T EXAGGERATE YOUR ABILITIES When describing yourself, don’t write checks that you cannot cash. If you say that you are successful, you should have at least a full-time job. If you say that you are funny, be funny, describe yourself using jokes. If you say that you are a musician, post a music that you are playing or composing for others to make sure that you are saying truthful things about yourself. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR ATTRACTS PEOPLE People, especially women, like sense of humor. If you say that you are funny, be funny, describe yourself using jokes. However, know your measure when using your sense of humor, otherwise, you may also put people off. If you make jokes, make them tasteful, self-deprecating or sarcastic, and do so with caution. Below you will find an example of how your ad may seem funny to other people which may reduce the number of responses from others. Top 10 funniest profile header messages (Online dating magazine) 10) Feel free to interact with me. All my shots are current! 9) You must be over 5’10” to read this profile. 8) I bathe every day! 7) Is this thing like eBay? 6) Shopping for Guys – And They Said There Was No Such Store! 5) Since light travels faster than sound, is that why some people appear bright until they speak? 4) I'm like poop. The older I get the easier I am to pick up! 3) Coffee, Chocolate, and Men - some things are just better rich. 2) I believe in dragons, good men, and other fantasy creatures. and the number one funniest profile header.... 1) Willing to lie about how we met! How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: DON’T WRITE A LONG STORY The major rule of arousing the reader’s interest is writing a short text using a very unique style of writing. Don’t put too much information in your profile. The reader should be able to read your info in a minute or two, otherwise, your ad will be boring and tedious. Too many unnecessary details in your ad may also sound funny for other people. Here is an example of how funny you may seem to other users:
“Hello everyone! My name is Jack. I was born in 1985 in Kentucky but then moved to another state. It was much distressful for me to leave the life I was living and start a new life in a new place, but I didn’t have a choice. Now I live in California and feel lonely without a girl-friend. That’s why I decided to register on XOXO.pro to find someone special here”.
Don’t reveal all your secrets completely. Let the reader make some conclusions about the kind of personality you are.
Example of a very inviting ad: “I am secure & happy with myself, but...Life is meant for 2!! A little bit about myself: I enjoy travel, camping by a lake, gardening, home decorating, Comedy Clubs & Dinner Theater, music, my dog, & celebrating special occasions. I am self-sufficient, independent, honest, I have a great sense of humor, & family & friends are very important to me. A man who ONLY has eyes for me & can make me laugh are important qualities! No Pressure! Let's just relax...become friends & get to know each other... and see what happens”. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: CHECK YOUR GRAMMAR AND SPELLING One of the biggest mistakes that you can make is grammar or spelling mistakes throughout your ad. It would be difficult for others to portray you as a successful or smart person if you don’t possess the basic writing skills. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: CREATE A REALISTIC DESCRIPTION OF YOUR PERFECT MATCH Remember, there are no perfect people, and if your requirements are too severe, you have little chances to get better response from your ad. Try not to seem too shallow when describing the person you would like to meet. Be realistic about your soul mate. Example of a good description of a soul mate (dateseeker.net): “She appears to be between 26 and 40 years old, but may appear younger than her age. She at least 5'7" (I am 6'), not a bbw, but doesn't live at the gym either. She has high-maintenance looks with a down-to-earth attitude, values, and personality. She loves rock & roll and may be found at concerts. I have conflicting reports that she's either a blonde or a brunette. She's intelligent with her own career and not dependent on someone to support her. If this person can be found, I can offer a reward of lifetime devotion, long, slow kisses that last for days, midnight massages, a partner that loves to cook and doesn't mind sharing in the household chores, someone to wash your back, a shoulder to lean on, and someone who will hold you at night. If you think you may have found my smile, please e-mail me as I really need it to be myself. Thanks”. How to Attract more people to your Dating Profile: BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR STATUS If you are married, don’t hide it from people. Sooner or later it will be revealed, and you may get into an awkward situation. Only being honest will help you find your true love. Take these simple things into consideration, and you will certainly get a better response from your ad! Good luck! Once you have found someone you really liked, try emailing for a while first. You would probably like to chat while you are both online. XOXO.pro offers useful tips for chatting, such as How to Arouse a Man’s Interest in the First Chat. If you are not sure whether or not you are compatible, take your time and get to know each other better through email exchanges. Description: This article provides some useful hints on how to get a better response from your ad. |
About the Author -- Diana Turner Social Media Manager, academic writer, and music composer, Diana Turner uses the phenomenal power of articles to help students, business owners and entrepreneurs. During the past 13 years of her writing experience, she has written over 4,600 articles including essays and different forms of academic papers useful for students and businesses. Since 2009, Diana Turner has written dating articles, tips and useful recommendations about the safety of online dating like: Who Pays on the First Date? |
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